SMALL GROUP DISCUSSION GUIDE

Series: Love Songs 

Title: Looking For Love

Summary: Exploring God's design for relationships through Song of Solomon, focusing on the qualities that make a godly relationship and the importance of putting Jesus first in our pursuit of love.

Icebreaker: "What's the worst dating advice you've ever received? How did it turn out if you followed it?"

Review of Previous Week's "I Will" Statement: I will defend the vulnerable with my time or resources.
• Share how you lived out last week's commitment
• What challenges did you face?
• How did God show up?

Discussion Questions:

1. Scripture Focus (Song of Solomon 1:2-4): "The message highlighted how the woman praised the man's character before his appearance. How does this challenge our culture's approach to relationships? What qualities do you think matter most in a potential partner?"
2. Personal Growth: "The speaker emphasized that godly character starts with allowing God to 'etch' His work in our lives. Share a time when you saw God developing your character through a relationship challenge. What did you learn?"
3. Trust & Vulnerability: "In Song of Solomon, we see the woman sharing her insecurities about her appearance. What makes it difficult for you to be vulnerable in relationships? How has trust (or lack of trust) impacted your relationships?"
4. Standards & Boundaries: "The message addressed God's design for sexual purity in relationships. How do you navigate maintaining godly standards in a culture that often promotes different values? What strategies have helped you?"
5. Encouragement & Life-Giving Words: "We saw how consistent encouragement transformed the woman's self-image. Share a specific example of when someone's words either built you up or tore you down. How did it impact you?"

This Week's "I Will" Statement: "I will be a great partner by putting Jesus first."

Prayer Prompts:
• Share personal prayer requests
• Pray for wisdom and strength in maintaining godly standards in relationships
• Pray for healing from past relationship wounds and the courage to trust again

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